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A new survey has found that almost 2 million raunchy British couples have tried swinging from one partner to another in a bid to spice up their sex lives. It has also found that another six million people would love to have some no-ties sexual encounters with other individuals or couples.
From all British cities, it came out that people from Manchester were the most adventurous, with 15 per cent admitting that they had tried swinging.
Most people who are not regulars to the scene say that they tried swinging between the ages of 18 and 21 out of curiosity, and in their 30s when marriage might have dulled their sex lives some what. There are many reasons couples decide to try swinging, but before taking any steps, have a listen to what we have to say about it first.
Every couple has newbie’s nerves the first time they go to a swingers' party. We all know what it's like to stand outside that door with your hearts racing thinking "Oh my God, what are we doing here?" This happens even if you have been looking forward to it for weeks and talking about it for months or even years.
There is nothing but safety and a welcome inside swingers clubs, mixed with a little opportunity if you feel in the mood! You won't have come this far without having thought about it long and hard, so go through with it and find out what you've been missing!
At your first-ever event, be sure to tell people you speak to that you are first-timers. Everyone remembers their first time and feels protective towards newcomers and they will make allowances for any awkwardness you show through inexperience. This advice does not apply if you have stumbled across some ghastly hicksville scene, where admitting to being 'virgins' will make you the target for advances from the worst types. Remember to choose your venue wisely.
Take an intelligent view of what to expect at your first party. In particular, take careful note of exactly what sort of party it is. Does the advertising specify that it is couples only? If not, there will certainly be extra men there. Is it advertised as a "mixed" party? This doesn't mean both sexes, it means couples and singles - in practice, single men. There are huge numbers (millions) of men who want to go to swinging parties without having to take a female partner and they are prepared to pay well over the odds. Actually, having extra men is a popular niche of the swinging market as the number of so-called 'greedy-girls' nights (gang-bang parties) on the scene is large. Even at these, men do not behave inappropriately towards women. Women are always in charge at swinging events - they can turn things on and off like a tap with a 'yes' or 'no'. But if you don't want to party in an environment with spare men around, you have to be vigilant and read between the lines. If it does not specify "couples only" or "no single men", the laws of economics mean that a lot of single men are sure to find their way in.
Pay attention to where the party is being held. If it is in a house, there will probably be fewer people but drinks are usually free and there are likely to be beds upstairs. If it is in commercial premises, such as a nightclub or bar, they can hold more people and they are usually more conveniently located. You are likely to be paying for your drinks and maybe something on the door too but there are not likely to be beds, just playrooms. Playrooms can consist of anything from just tables and chairs to the most luxuriously themed boudoirs. But if that does not appeal to you, it can be worth going just to meet couples you can arrange to see again by yourselves in a more private environment.
This brings us to the people you are likely to meet. Very few events specify age limits (apart from over 18) so if you attend a swingers night that does not specify for example 18-30 or 25+, you can expect that there will be some grandparents present. But it is also unusual for a party not to have a few young and really attractive couples who are worth going just to meet. Just brace yourselves for the age mix to avoid disappointment.
A new survey has found that almost 2 million raunchy British couples have tried swinging from one partner to another in a bid to spice up their sex lives. It has also found that another six million people would love to have some no-ties sexual encounters with other individuals or couples.
From all British cities, it came out that people from Manchester were the most adventurous, with 15 per cent admitting that they had tried swinging.
Most people who are not regulars to the scene say that they tried swinging between the ages of 18 and 21 out of curiosity, and in their 30s when marriage might have dulled their sex lives some what. There are many reasons couples decide to try swinging, but before taking any steps, have a listen to what we have to say about it first.
Every couple has newbie’s nerves the first time they go to a swingers' party. We all know what it's like to stand outside that door with your hearts racing thinking "Oh my God, what are we doing here?" This happens even if you have been looking forward to it for weeks and talking about it for months or even years.
There is nothing but safety and a welcome inside swingers clubs, mixed with a little opportunity if you feel in the mood! You won't have come this far without having thought about it long and hard, so go through with it and find out what you've been missing!
At your first-ever event, be sure to tell people you speak to that you are first-timers. Everyone remembers their first time and feels protective towards newcomers and they will make allowances for any awkwardness you show through inexperience. This advice does not apply if you have stumbled across some ghastly hicksville scene, where admitting to being 'virgins' will make you the target for advances from the worst types. Remember to choose your venue wisely.
Take an intelligent view of what to expect at your first party. In particular, take careful note of exactly what sort of party it is. Does the advertising specify that it is couples only? If not, there will certainly be extra men there. Is it advertised as a "mixed" party? This doesn't mean both sexes, it means couples and singles - in practice, single men. There are huge numbers (millions) of men who want to go to swinging parties without having to take a female partner and they are prepared to pay well over the odds. Actually, having extra men is a popular niche of the swinging market as the number of so-called 'greedy-girls' nights (gang-bang parties) on the scene is large. Even at these, men do not behave inappropriately towards women. Women are always in charge at swinging events - they can turn things on and off like a tap with a 'yes' or 'no'. But if you don't want to party in an environment with spare men around, you have to be vigilant and read between the lines. If it does not specify "couples only" or "no single men", the laws of economics mean that a lot of single men are sure to find their way in.
Pay attention to where the party is being held. If it is in a house, there will probably be fewer people but drinks are usually free and there are likely to be beds upstairs. If it is in commercial premises, such as a nightclub or bar, they can hold more people and they are usually more conveniently located. You are likely to be paying for your drinks and maybe something on the door too but there are not likely to be beds, just playrooms. Playrooms can consist of anything from just tables and chairs to the most luxuriously themed boudoirs. But if that does not appeal to you, it can be worth going just to meet couples you can arrange to see again by yourselves in a more private environment.
This brings us to the people you are likely to meet. Very few events specify age limits (apart from over 18) so if you attend a swingers night that does not specify for example 18-30 or 25+, you can expect that there will be some grandparents present. But it is also unusual for a party not to have a few young and really attractive couples who are worth going just to meet. Just brace yourselves for the age mix to avoid disappointment.
